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RELATIONAL SKILLS BOOTCAMP

“Intimacy isn’t something you have, it’s something you do. And you can learn to do it better.”

— Terry Real

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A Transformative 2-Day Workshop in London for Couples and Individuals

The Relationship Bootcamp

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Learn the essential skills to improve communication, resolve conflict, and build intimacy.

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Saturday 21 – Sunday 22 March, 2026 

Regents University, London Inner Circle, London NW1 4NS

9am – 5pm both days​

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RLT CERTIFIED THERAPIST FACILITATORS

Join a powerful workshop in London for couples and individuals looking to improve communication and build meaningful, intimate relationships.​

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Saturday 21 – Sunday 22 March, 2026​

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Regents University, London Inner Circle, London NW1 4NS​

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9am – 5pm both days​​

 

An intensive two-day workshop from The Relational Life Institute. Learn the Essential Skills To Transform Your Relationship

 

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WHAT WILL YOU LEARN IN THE BOOTCAMP?

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Build a Relationship Built on Compassion and Collaboration for Lifelong Intimacy

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You’ll gain a wealth of practical skills you can use immediately to build healthier, more meaningful relationships, including:

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✔  What gets in your way of the deeply satisfying relationship you want.

✔  How your self-esteem & boundaries intersect to create repeated patterns in your

relationships.

✔  How to ground yourself so you can effectively engage in challenging conversations.

✔  Healthy listening & responding skills to improve communication & de-escalate conflict.

✔  How to assert your wants & desires in a way that empowers your partner to meet them.

✔  Winning strategies to nurture your connection and cherish your partner.​

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WHAT TO EXPECT FROM THE BOOTCAMP

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You will learn essential skills from Relational Life Therapy (RLT)—the radically effective approach to relationship therapy created by internationally-recognized therapist and bestselling author, Terry Real. RLT is known for its ability to spark profound, lasting change in individuals and their relationships, and these skills will help you build and sustain meaningful connections.​

 

You will learn through a combination of lecture, small group exercises, and personal reflections guided by Certified senior RLT therapists trained by Terry Real.​

 

Discover the Real Work of Relationships...​We know that relationships take work, but few of us know what that work actually is... the real work of relationships isn’t occasional, it’s minute-to-minute. And this workshop will teach you those critical minute-to-minute skills that build and sustain true intimacy.

 

​By the end of the two days, you’ll have the skills to:

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​✔ Override your knee-jerk reactions in heated moments to navigate conflict calmly.

✔ Break free from the losing strategies that block you from enjoying true intimacy.

✔ Complain without blame and get more of what you want from your relationship.

✔ Encourage, not discourage, your partner’s efforts, and celebrate progress.

✔ Let go of the battle of who’s right and work together to find a solution.

 

Join us for this transformative workshop to learn the powerful relational skills you need to create the deeply connected relationship you yearn for.​​

 

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WHO SHOULD JOIN?

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The Relationship Bootcamp is suitable for:

 

​✔  Couples looking to strengthen their connection, improve communication, and sustain intimacy.

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✔  Individuals looking to overcome their barriers to intimacy and cultivate more meaningful relationships.

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“Terry Real’s Boot Camp was life-changing for me and my husband. We’ve been together 30+ years so it’d be fair to wonder what would we possibly have to work on. My love-avoidant, grandiose man said this shifted our relationship to a deeper, more loving level; his love-dependent, grandiose wife agrees. The Boot Camp weekend opened up new ways to talk, to see ourselves and to love each other.”

— Sarah P., Portland, OR

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“My wife and I both found RLI’s workshop to be exceptional, and well worth the time and effort to fly to Boston. I would recommend it highly, particularly to couples having communication problems. RLI’s approach is unique, but common sense, so it is easy to understand and, hopefully, to apply.”

— A.M., Toronto

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“The couples work that you do is so valuable — we are relating now in a wholly new and expansive way. It’s what each of us knew we were missing but could not have found on our own. Thank you so much!”

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HOW THE RELATIONSHIP BOOTCAMP HAS CHANGED OTHERS

GETTING TO THE BOOTCAMP

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All participants are required to make their own travel and accommodation arrangements.

Regent’s University London,

Inner Circle, Regent’s Park, London, NW1 4NS

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Roughly a 5-minute walk from Baker Street underground station. 

Limited (paid) onsite parking is available. Please visit the venue’s website for more information.

REGISTER FOR THE BOOTCAMP

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You can join as a couple or individual.

 

Prices include two full days of training, refreshments and lunch each day.

 

Participants are responsible for booking their own travel and accommodation.

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Join as a Couple

£850​

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Early bird special 

£750 if registered before 18th January 2026

£800 if registered before 18th February 2026​

 

Join as an Individual

£425

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Early bird special

£375 if registered before 18th January 2026

£400 if registered before 18th February 2026

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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

​When is the training?​

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Saturday 21 – Sunday 22 March, 2026

9am – 5pm both days

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Where is the venue?

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Regents University, London Inner Circle, London NW1 4NS

 

How do I get to the venue?

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Directions to the venue can be found here:

https://www.regents.ac.uk/about/contact-us/how-to-find-us

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What time should I arrive?

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Kindly arrive from 9:00am, using the main entrance. The Relational Life Institute registration desk will be easily visible, staffed by our friendly team who will assist with check-in and provide you with your name badge. Upon entry, you will be directed into the confernce room and you can enjoy refreshments before the first talk scheduled to start at 9:30am. 

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How much does it cost?

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The event costs £400 per person (please see Early bird offer above) to attend for the full two days and includes lunch and refreshments.

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Please note, guests are responsible for arranging their own accommodation and transport.

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What is Relational Life Therapy?

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Relational Life Therapy (RLT) is Terry Real’s radical approach to couples therapy that breaks many of the rules of traditional couples therapy. Notably, RLT emphasizes the importance of people learning the ongoing skills they need to nurture and cherish their relationships long after their time in therapy is over. It’s these core skills you will learn in the Relationship Bootcamp to help you create meaningful relationships and keep the spark alive.

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Who is Terry Real?

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Terry Real, LICSW, is an internationally recognized family therapist, bestselling author, and sought-after speaker.

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A former senior faculty member of the Family Institute of Cambridge in Massachusetts and a retired Clinical Fellow of the Meadows Institute in Arizona, Terry is renowned for his ability to save couples on the brink of divorce using the progressive approach he created, Relational Life Therapy. RLT equips people with the powerful relational skills they need to cultivate meaningful connections—to themselves, each other, and the planet as a whole.

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Via his esteemed training school, the Relational Life Institute, Terry has trained thousands of mental health practitioners in his RLT method to date, including the senior RLT therapists running this workshop.

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I’m attending as a professional, do I need to participate?

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Yes—participation is essential for you to get the maximum knowledge and benefit from the experience. You may come alone or with your partner.

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Are CEUs available?

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Yes

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What’s your refund policy?

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We know sometimes plans can change so you’re protected by a 100% money-back guarantee until 18th February, 2026. Please contact us at relationalbootcamp@gmail.com before 18th February, 2026 and we will refund you . Any cancellations after this date will not be eligible for refunds. 

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I have more questions. Who do I speak to?


Please reach out to our support team at Relationalbootcamp@gmail.com

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 Psychotherapy and Counselling in Chiswick, London W4 4DH © 2018 by Victoria Shalet MBACP (Accred) and Certified Relational Life Therapist 

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